Date: 2017-11-15 15:50
Beauty standards, yeah, but if you re not hefting around some power or celebrity of some kind, you re almost being left in the dust.
When I sold mid level vehicles I wore polo shirt and khakis everyday, but once I moved up I had to be suited and booted everyday.
Speaking as someone who s had a lot of friends and family members battle depression, medication by itself is not the solution. Medication + therapy, on the other hand, is generally pretty effective.
I think Julia s Oh. Yes! response is a little misleading. In my eyes, there s a difference between hang out and date. One has an implied romantic context and one doesn t.
I just would prefer to think of it as engaging people in a fun way. So, having said all of that, there are a couple of basic approaches that we can use. Oh and there 8767 s one more thing I want to point out the idea that you wanna get the phone number. This is a common, a huge mistake and the mistake is that guys are aiming for the behaviours they want with women. They want to get the behaviour of 8775 hey give me your phone number 8776 . Well you can walk up to someone and hold a gun to her head and say 8775 give me your phone number or you’re dead 8776 You got the phone number but did you get your outcome?
6) survey the scene
7) open conversation and build comfort
8) re-evaluate the situation, close or bounce to a new location.
No, I get it and appreciate the suggestion, but that specific one is something I don t want to deal with or consider dealing with. At all.
Then I 8767 d lay the punch line on her:
8776 holy shit, I remember now, YOU were the girl in my first wet dream.. oh my god I 8767 m so embarrased... shit don 8767 t tell me you actually remember me.. (giggles or hysterical laughture, depending on her drunkenness).. 8776 so you actually remember me, the spiderman outfit and all? Hey I 8767 ve given that shit up, I 8767 m cool now. Shit I was like 67 then. Whaa it wasn 8767 t you? (lead on to dance)..
7) Watch your seeking rapport tonality. Most newbies have this annoying, upwards vocal inflection. It sounds like a beggar asking for change. 8775 What are you doing today? 8776 Instead, keep either a neutral rapport like you would use while talking to your best friend, or a breaking rapport, downwards inflection that sounds like your boss telling you to work faster. Either is better. Record yourself on your cellphone if you 8767 re not sure what you sound like.